Self improvement for self, aka avoiding the PUA trap:
PUAs(PickUp Artists) are nothing more then the worst SIMP(Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy)s.
Don't be a PUA, and do nothing?:
PUA !=(not equal) Self improvement:
All over the MGTOW spaces I am starting to see more and more people who are not doing anything with their lives because it would be SIMPing.
An ugly perversion of MGTOW by the Empire of Darkness(My name for the globalists).
YOU ARE NOT A SIMP IF YOU IMPROVE ON YOURSELF!
The only thing you have to watch out for is that if you improve yourself for your benefit, not someone else's benefit.
PUA rule of "be the prize" for MGTOW:
Many PUAs say this rule, however they twist it real hard with this(taken from FMS II):
"The hard part is that you have to give females collectively a lot of attention(check out a PUA site to see how much they obsess over their N-count(amount of females slept with)).
If you start giving them collectively little attention you trigger actual danger towards them."
MGTOW on the other hand can take "be the prize" seriously.
For a MGTOW man a woman must fight for, it must chase you.
Now most(99.99999%) women won't do that but that's not the point here.
You are the prize, you are the one that should be chased.
If a woman is not "attacking" you, just do whatever you would like to do, be yourself and enjoy being alive(MGTOW manual chapter 6).
We will all die one day and face our almighty lord, and probably get sent to hell.
Self improvement on your own way:
Look deep into yourself, and be brutally honest.
You probably see some issues.
If not you are either perfect(never), or arrogant, try again.
Is it my issue?:
If you find an issue, you have to ask yourself:
"Is this an issue I recognize as a problem or someone else told me it's an issue?"
If it is not your issue, ignore it, it is likely BS.
If the answer is that it is your issue, then you have to decide between reform or radical change.
Reform:
If your problem is not too severe, and/or you have a lot of time to fix the problem and/or it is low priority.
Then you need to reform.
As an example if you are gaming 12 hours a day and only want to do 4.
Then you should decrease in increments, going to 12 to 10 to 8 so on and so forth.
Radical change:
If the conditions are not good for reform(you are in deep shit), radical change is needed.
Here with the gaming example, you cut 12 down to 2 instantly, then slowly release it up to 4.
This is the overshooting trick.
Be wary as radical change HURTS BAD, especially if you are not the initiator(ex.: getting divorce raped).
Only do this if reform is not an option.
Overshooting trick:
If you set a goal, which is far away, it is better to go even further at first.
Your low functions will resist hard.
Then you pull back to the goal, and suddenly your low functions are satisfied, because you "gave in".
The Empire of Darkness used this in operation warpspeed(COVID).
Why should we improve:
MGTOW sadly acts as a pacifier for many of us, especially those who suffered more before they became MGTOW.
Understandably, as after great suffering and loss of a loved one, you don't want to do anything so you can focus on processing the event.
However one of the best ways to remove the pain is to work on something you want to.
Your higher functions are distracted, your brain is processing less intensively, therefore less painfully.
As a personal example I assembled a retro computer.
Even if it is far away from a good computer, I like it because it is MY computer.
It doesn't need to be a computer, it can be anything.
Mental or physical work, doesn't matter.
Open the doors:
If we improve our ways and methods, more and more possibilites open up, especially in a time when the world's power balance is moving.
You need to be versatile in a time of hardship.
Self improvement might save your ass in the dark times coming up.
Sadly as men we are oppressed by the Empire of Darkness, so our possibilites are limited, but remember that this won't last forever.
In the future we will have to take control of everything to shape the world in the way we want it.
Passivity kills:
When you are not doing anything, naturally your mind starts focusing inside.
If you were severely hurt by the carnage before MGTOW, your mind will focus on this.
Until you are not in a good enough shape to understand and seal off the event, it will only hurt to think about it.
So MOVE and DO SOMETHING to force your mind off the pain, especially in the first few days, as our brain processes trauma in a hyperbolic way.
It can save your life as the processing doesn't stop, only the pain does.
Last modified: 2023-10-06